This article was first posted on Osho News. Madhuri elucidates at a talk the source of women’s unease at a lifted toilet seat, and of men’s at being shouted at (with two poems and video link) So: You’ve met this great woman and now it’s the middle of the night and you’re all tangled up together under the duvet… and she gets up to go to the loo. And when she comes back her face is kind of squinched up, and you ask, “What’s the matter?” And she says, “Ummm… could you, like, put the seat down? ...